This morning I spoke with the financial counselor at the fertility clinic and she told me that our health insurance will cover most of In Vitro procedure. She was impressed with our coverage and even told us to "use it now, with Obamacare coming you won't have these kind of benefits in the future". This made me laugh, she was very young, probably no more than 25. Can you tell we live in a very conservative part of town? LOL.
Now the really good news! This whole procedure is going to costs us less than $1,000 dollars! This includes all tests, drugs and physician's fees. I'm sure I'll get the usual bills in the mail but at least we are not going to be $15,000 dollars in DEBT. She also mentioned that the insurance will only cover this once. There's some kind of lifetime benefits cap for fertility and this will probably take most of that money. The fertility clinic does have the buy one get one free special meaning if you are not pregnant they can try again but I assume this will cost more out of pocket, I guess we'll have to wait and see how it goes.
What keeps me up a night? all the testing! my big fear is they're going to find something wrong and that will lead to something else. I had all my blood tests done and haven't heard anything back... I'm hoping, praying and wishing for the best. I keep telling myself if it doesn't work, at least we tried. I can only do so much... if life, god, nature doesn't want this to happen... then it's not going to happen.
Anyways I'll keep you posted, wish us luck.
Have a good weekend!
HS

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HS - regardless of my feelings about how you spend and spend and spend, I sincerely hope all goes well. Promise us this - that if it does not work out, please get counseling to deal with the grief and don't go into as I blogged about 'emotional spending'.
Counseling? as in marriage counseling?? How would a shrink help?
HS
No, not as in marriage counseling, silly. She said grief counseling - for not being able to get pregnant.
And it would help.
Wait....you haven't had testing? You have done IF treatment without having testing?? The very minimum should have been semen analysis, a HSG for wife (checks for blocked tubes and other fibroids or growths), and basic hormone screening.
If you haven't done that, and you had treatment....then all you did was throw your money away.
Be thankful you have insurance that will cover the IVF.
Mysti,
She's done most of those tests and I've done the semen analysis... these are just additional tests...
HS
Ronnie is correct. Grief counseling.
Nice to hear that insurance is giving you almost a free pass. Proof that sometimes it is worth going for things you think you can't afford, because sometimes they turn out to be affordable after all.
HS!
Good luck. Try not to worry...stress can make things much more difficult. I'm glad your insurance will foot most of the bill. I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you! :)!
I am afraid what will happen to you guys when you do get pregnant, and it doesn't fix your problems with spending recklessly, hiding things from each other (if you've got secrets, odds are she does to), and generally not acting like grown ups. I do not use the word afraid lightly. I am genuinely afraid, for your health and well being and that of your wife and child. You guys scare me.
I'm so excited that your insurance will cover this. That is great news! I'm sending positive thoughts and prayers your way!
It's sad that insurance will cover less with Obamacare in place. It's nice that it's not that much out of pocket. Good luck!
Good luck! I hope it all goes well for you on the baby front.
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